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Victim Mentality and Coaching

A Coaching Model By Aneta Kantarowska
Life Coach, NETHERLANDS

In this research paper, I will look at what a victim mentality is, how to coach a client who has one, and what resources a client can use in addition to coaching. Coaching can be used with a victim mentality client as a sounding board, but it can also be used to partner with a client to realize their thinking patterns and limitations, and whenever they are ready to take some actions to change the course of their life. Clients who have a victim mentality may need a coach who is compassionate and acknowledges that they have been through some traumatic events. They may object to being judged or labeled as a victim.

Calm Your Mind

A Coaching Model By Aneta Kantarowska
Life Coach, NETHERLANDS

At Calm Your Mind, I work with clients who are dissatisfied with their lives. My coaching sessions are built on calm, trust, and a feeling of being truly heard. I want the clients to feel, they are in a safe place where they can leave their problems behind and where they will not be judged for saying what is really on their minds. When clients trust their coach, they relax and are more open to delving deeper into their thoughts, which may lead to decisions and action. I want to make sure that my clients feel comfortable sharing whatever is on their minds with me until they are ready to move on.

Appreciation vs. Disregard

A Coaching Power Tool By Aneta Kantarowska
Life Coach, NETHERLANDS

Humans often take things for granted. We are healthy, we have good jobs and a good house, and our children are fine, but we are not satisfied. Only when bad things happen and we lose what we have we consider how happy we were at the time. The truth is that we will always strive for more. It is how our society has taught us to live and how we have become accustomed to doing things. When we complete a task, we immediately move on to the next task until we are satisfied. Everything we encounter in our lives should inspire us to Appreciation vs. Disregard. Because we are all unique and come from different backgrounds, each of us is grateful for different things.

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