Research Paper: Parenting Global Nomads: Turning Challenges Into A Lifetime Enrichment With Coaching

Research Paper By Muriel Berard
(Life Transition Coach, CHINA)

Synopsis

This paper explores the complexity of raising happy and well-balanced global nomads children and how coaching can support parents to maximize the gifts of mobility.

Global nomads experience paradoxical benefits and challenges of growing-up with a high mobility lifestyle and among different cultures.

Parents having chosen to raise global nomads need to provide affirmation and support to help them navigate through mobility transitions and identity challenges.  Away from their own family support systems and themselves facing expatriation challenges, parents can only rely on their natural instincts, support of new communities or any other resources they can find.

Coaching offers to global nomads’ parents the space and support to embrace their responsibilities in a positive and proactive way and turn challenges into a lifetime enrichment for their kids.

Though the exact number of children being raised outside their passport country worldwide has not been tabulated, it is clear that in an increasingly global economy, the number is growing.

Global Nomads are children who share common characteristics and face similar difficulties. Navigating through mobility transitions and changes, building identity in more than one culture, they acquire unique skills that could prepare them to be the global citizens of tomorrow.

Who are global nomad children? What makes them different? What are the challenges of parenting abroad? And finally how coaching can support parents to turn overseas experiences in a lifetime enrichment for their children?

This paper will explore these different questions based on a review of the literature on this subject.

Anthropologist and sociologist Ruth Hill Useem first introduced the term “Third Culture Kid” (TCK) in the 1950s before Pollock and Van Reken adopted it. These authors defined and explained a TCK to be:

a person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents’ culture(s). The TCK frequently builds relationships to all of the cultures, while not having full ownership in any. Although elements from each culture may be assimilated into the TCK’s life experience, the sense of belonging is in relationship to others of similar background (2009, p. 13).

Norma McCaig, herself a TCK, coined the term Global Nomad in 1984, which has been used synonymously ever since (Schaetti, 2000, p. 69).

However, in the global nomads’ definition, there is one small, but notable difference, which is the explicit addition of the reason for the mobility: the parental occupation.

Global Nomads share two major realities that affect the deeper parts of their cultural being, including their values, beliefs and worldview and make them different from other kids: growing up among different cultural worlds and high mobility. Both realities offer significant benefits and skills for most Global Nomad children but at the same time both produce challenges that must be recognized and addressed.

“The often paradoxical benefits and challenges of the TCK profile are sometimes described as being like opposite sides of the same coin, but in reality they are more like the contrasting colored strands of thread woven together into a tapestry. As each strand crosses with a contrasting or complementary color, a picture begins to emerge, but no one stand alone tells the full story” (Pollock and Van Reken 2009).

Benefits of High Mobility and Different Cultural Exposure

All of these skills and abilities properly recognized and nurtured, are gifts that can strengthen global nomads self-confidence and empower them to counterbalance the many challenges of their mobile and multicultural life style.