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You are here: Home » COACH PORTFOLIOS » Power Tools » Power Tool: Conforming vs. Choosing Consciously

Power Tool: Conforming vs. Choosing Consciously

2016/11/16

Read their blogs, get their books, take courses with them, perhaps attend events where they speak. Accurate, sensible knowledge in these areas has great power to reveal gems for you to make your choices accordingly.

anu_sachar_power_tool_19Seek to Understand

Before I can walk in another’s shoes, I must first remove my own – Unknown

Dr. Steven Covey’s Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to be Understood is that people form opinions based on their own experiences. (7 Habits of Highly Effective People)

anu_sachar_power_tool_20The deepest need of the human heart is to be understood. Everyone wants to be respected and valued for who they are – unique, one-of-a-kind. People won’t  share  their  deepest  feelings  unless  they  feel  genuine  love  and anu_sachar_power_tool_21understanding. Once they feel it, they will probably give you more than you want to hear.Try to understand instead of judging. Be aware that “There’s another side to the story.”

With positive regard for the others’ opinion, accept them as they are and make your choices consciously…

anu_sachar_power_tool_22Thoughts while choosing consciously…

  • Making choices  after  considering  both  perspectives  either  right  – wrong, good – bad
  • Making conscious choices of words to express single event or experience
  • Being aware of influences in your life and choosing your actions aligned to your true self
  • Living your values and choosing to authentically reflect meaning in all relationships
  • Choosing to spend time with family sharing joy
  • Choosing to respond to challenges, disappointments as a learning process
  • Understanding and  acknowledging  others  perspective,  with  great  respect  and  positive regard sharing your opinions
  • Appreciating your own gifts as unique to your own journey
  • Celebrating life – accepting what is
  • Choosing when to let go of past learning and experiences that have served their purpose
  • Integrating through self awareness all disempowering or empowering thoughts, emotionsas guidance to move forward
  • Choosing a mind-set of gratitude and grace
  • Choosing to  work  with  teams,  leaders  with  authenticity  –  appreciating  strengths  , celebrating differences
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