A Coaching Model Created by Christiane (Christy) Evenepoel
(Life Coach & Stage Presence Expert Coach, BELGIUM)
Some people die at 25 and aren’t buried until 75. Benjamin Franklin
Everybody dies, but not everybody lives. Prince EA
What is the point of being successful according to society, but a failure according to your standards? Feeling dead inside, empty, settling for less, accepting abuse, surviving, having no purpose, believing that things can not change. We have all been there.
Real success is living life on your own terms, being truly ALIVE!
Coaching makes you feel alive all over again, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
Coaching help you to discover who you are and bring back to life your true desire, values, need and goals.
Coaching help you realize what you want to stand for and gives you the right conditions and accountability partnership you need to create the life you want.
That the difference between a victim and a legendary performer.
Live your life, step into your greatness.
ALIVE
A: Awakening through awareness
I have a holistic approach to my coaching “Mind, Body & Soul”, understanding that we are not just human, not just a body with limitations.
We are linked with a spiritual force (the Universe, God, the divine,…)
In the process of discovering who we are as an individual, awareness will reveal your beliefs, your strengths and your desires.
Awareness helps you to learn about yourself, your inner talk, your habits, what serve you as well as what sabotage you or disempowered us.
It all about meeting YOU all over again.
L: LOVE
We often leave the “loving us” to others (partners, mother, father, friends, dogs,…) and we blame them if they don’t do it right.
It’s actually your job to learn how to love you; you are the only “thing” you are sure to keep for the rest of your life.
Loving you is learning what is good to you, what empowers you, what brings you peace and joy. It’s respecting your boundaries and showing others how to love you right.
LOVE, that’s what life is all about.
Coaching help you learn to fill your cup first and only give from your overflow.
I: Inspiration
What inspires you? Who inspires you? What makes you vibe?
That always a great starting point to know what moves you, what resonate with you.
By understanding your inspiration, you will be able to have a clearer vision of what you want to do and the person you want to be.
Coaching help you to gain clarity and give you with the coaching the tools (like visualization & strength finder) to help you start your vision of success.
and the actions needed, you are set to achieve what you want.
V: Voice
Find your voice, your aim and your reason to be alive.
By setting goals and covering all options and choices, you can start setting an action plan to achieve what you want.
Coaching help you to commit to your goal and purpose.
Coaching help you to voice that wonderful thing that makes you special and unique.
Build on your strength, grow your uniqueness.
E: Embracing your destiny
Enjoy the new effortlessness of your journey.
New habits are in place, new success are coming.
Stay align, stay focus, stay grateful.
Be ready to shine, be ready to fail, be ready to readjust and be ready to succeed.
Become your own role model.
What I try to do it’s to connect people with their liveness. Liveness goes with meaning, with purpose, with creativity, with playfulness and goes with connection; to thyself, to oneself, to ones partners, to families and to the world.
In closing, let me share with you one of the most empowering speeches I have ever read.
Nelson Mandela 1994
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It’s not just in some of us; it’s in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.
