A Coaching Model Created by Cecile Chevereau
(Life Coach, GERMANY)
You are parents, teachers and you would like your child, your student becomes who it truly is as an adult?
You wish to provide the best environment possible for this human being to blossom and to be able to handle life the best possible way and enjoy it?
You desire to develop a deep and authentic connection with your child, your student allowing him to grow with a feeling of love and trust?
The CHILD coaching model is designed for YOU.
Here and now
Conscious education is an approach that recognizes that what a child needs the most from its educator is someone who truly connects with it, someone who truly sees it and accept it for who it truly is. And we, as an educator, can do that only if we are ourselves truly connected to our true self, to who we truly are.
By accepting and seeing us as a whole, by living in harmony with our true self, we will be able to accept the child as a whole and to offer it the right environment, what it NEEDS to fully blossom, according to its true self. We will allow them to follow their own calling.
In conscious education, we choose to use the relationship with the child as a mirror., as the greatest awakener. This relationship can show us, teach us how we have been wounded in our own childhood and how we can evolve and heal.
The child invites us to look at ourselves, to feel our feelings – even and especially the most excruciating ones, the fears they are triggering within us. This work inward allows us to heal the parts of us who need it, and to let our children free from our own wounds, coming mostly …. from our own childhood.
Conscious education allows the child to be free to be their own being.
Here and Now
In the CHILD coaching model, we will learn to focus on the present moment and to consciously pause. We will learn to make a habit of it. What is really happening with the child here and now? Are we able to respond from a place of calmness instead of anger or frustration or fear or pressure? How attuned are we with the child? The children know how they feel. Are we? Are we always aware of what we are really feeling?
Conscious education is a day to day practice, moment by moment that requires a deep presence, where we also focus on the non-verbal energies, on the unspoken.
The CHILD coaching model will help you to develop this ability to be fully present at the moment and to experience the power of it. Everything is happening in the present moment. Children are expert of it and they need us there.
The society has conditioned us to look outward. Our cultural and educational environment makes us believe that if we are looking for something if we are missing something, we will find it in the outside world as if the outside world IS the solution.
More and more in our evolution as human species, we realize that this concept, even unconscious is an illusion. The CHILD coaching model will help you to recognize and experience that no matter the answer you are looking for to solve a challenge or become a better educator, it will always be in connection to yourself, it will always be inward.
We will learn to sit with the feelings, to feel the waves, how to tolerate the uncomfortable feelings and find the answers in them.
A child knows more about Life experientially. It is time to learn Life from them, not the other way around. – Sadhhuru.
Children are a real chance for us to reconsider, to revisit in our hearts what is alive, what being a human being means and what life is really about.
We will work on developing our awareness that Life is not about having the “perfect” life, Life is not about success, Life is not about being happy. We will learn to take this pressure out of our shoulders as educators that we are responsible to get the children to success and to happiness. This pressure creates a lot of shame and guilt in us, educators, which then cause disconnection with the children.
Life is above all about a journey. And pain is part of it, it is inevitable. It will be more useful, more liberating to prepare the children and give them the skills that no matter what life will throw at them – and we all know that Life can be very creative – they will be able to handle any situation, “to surf the wave”. This perception of Life leads to real Joy. As Dalai Lama was saying: “Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”
By mistaken success and happiness with the experience of being a human being, we are causing a lot of stress and anxiety to the children and to ourselves, educators.
Dare to explore a new path in education.
Dare to explore yourself and live in alignment with who you truly are.
Conscious education is a courageous path, not an easy path.
By doing that, by being on this path of consciousness, you will be able to inspire and lead the way for the children around you. They will grow with a sense of being alive and attunement with themselves.
Tuning in one’s inner world and who we really are is an art, something that needs to be honed over time.– Dr.ShefaliTsabary
Who Am I As A Coach?
Let me share with you the work on my “WHY” as defined by Simon Sinek with his golden circle.
Everything I do, I believe in transforming education.
I believe in making possible for a child to become an adult still connected to its true self, to what it truly is.
It will stay in touch with its innate creativity, and innate talents, able to handle life the best possible way.
By supporting and inspiring parents, teachers, schools on this new path of education to serve as wonderful life-model for children and by connecting the educators worldwide with innovative ways of educating children.
I coach parents and teachers worldwide.
I do research in education.
A child knows more about life itself, experientially. It is time to learn life from them, not the other way around- Sadhguru
Concept As A Coach
Each child is unique. We are all born with immense natural talents, infinite possibilities. Babies and very young children are incredibly intuitive, naturally creative and deeply curious. Keeping it alive is the key to transforming education. – Sir Ken Robinson, author, international speaker, an expert on education, creativity and innovation.
Commitment As A Coach
As a coach, I will support and accompany my client on his/her path of an educator.
- I will help her/him with the daily challenges that need to be solved within themselves and with the children. Educators need SUPPORT in order to always improve at discerning what are the needs of the children to blossom as an individual.
- I will also assist them to become inspirational and conscious leaders for the children around them, always engaging in a win-win relationship.
- He/She will benefit from my 25 years experience on the conscious path and above all from my infinite curiosity about life and human being.
- During my coaching session, I will always encourage, and support my client to have in mind this quote from B.Brown: Talk to yourself like you would talk to someone you love.